Don't Know, But Ross Douthat Tests The Limits
What is it with conservatives and marriage? They are obsessed by the idea, obsessed by
the fact that married couples seem to lead better lives both economically and
socially than unmarried couples or single people, and hence conclude causality
where there is none. They take the
position that marriage causes improvement in one’s life. And so their public policy is based on this
obviously false premise.
This leads to nonsensical positions, like
this one from New York Times columnist Ross Douthat on the subject of
government and marriage.
Meanwhile,
no-fault divorce probably contributed to the unexpected “social contagion”
effect of the divorce revolution, in which the example of a marital split
undermines marriages across a social network. And it created new reasons to
delay marriage in the first place, given the risk of investing in a venture
that could be unilaterally dissolved.
Many
marriages, especially in the upper-middle class, were strengthened by caution
and delay. But for couples with more limited resources, and more to lose from
failure, no-fault
divorce may have reduced the
value of the institution and the sacrifices embraced on its behalf.
His point in this tortured rhetoric, no-fault divorce laws
and easing the ability to get a divorce reduced marriages. What an idiot! By making divorce easier and more available
marriages are increased not decreased. When
it was difficult to end a marriage, the incentive was not to get married in the
first place. When it became easier to
end an unhappy and unsuccessful marriage, couples became much more likely to
enter into marriage.
This is an obvious position to anyone other than
conservatives. As an example, note how
cell phone and TV provides are moving away from locking people into
contracts. They know that one deterrent
to signing up for their service is the long term commitment, ease that and more
people will come on board. The same is
true for marriage.
Even worse is the policy prescription that people like Mr.
Douthat would advocate.
When liberals
claim social conservatives don’t have any policy ideas for marriage promotion,
then, they’re somewhat self-deceived. A sustained conservative shift on
abortion policy and marriage law probably would, over the long term, increase
the rate at which couples take vows and stay together, and improve the life
prospects of their children.
So one
hypothetical middle ground on marriage promotion might involve wage subsidies and modest limits on unilateral divorce,
or a jobs programand a second-trimester abortion ban.
Yes, Mr. Douthat and conservatives would use the power of
government to force people to say in marriages they wish to dissolve. This is of course in total violation of the
principles of conservatism which says that government should allow people to
lead their lives as free as possible of government constraints. But of course since conservatives have no
principles, the utter idiocy, the total hypocrisy and the comprehensive
stupidity of this position is lost on them.
And the fact that these same conservatives oppose same sex
marriage and the two parent families that children in those marriages would live
in just adds additional evidence that when it comes to policy, conservatives
would use government to force their beliefs on others. Conservatives are now just conservative in name only.
Douthat also operates from the false premise that no-fault divorce is an easy process. It is only easy if the couple separate amicably and have few assets, few liabilities, and no children. Otherwise it is often an expensive, bitterly fought, and time-consuming process.
ReplyDeleteI doubt Douthat even knows what no-fault divorce is. No-fault divorce means that a spouse can commence an action for divorce without having to satisfy an arbitrary requirement, such as the spouses living apart for a full year. It does not simply let an unhappy spouse walk away from a marriage. It requires court approval and there are still a host of statutory prerequisites. It is easier than it used to be, but it is not easy.
Fun additional reading: http://www.interfluidity.com/v2/4938.html
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