People that Mr. Woods Could Take a Lesson From – If Only His Ego Was Not in the Way
[Editor's note: After writing about an ugly American - see next story - it seems only right to write about a a person who exemplifies what it means to be a good, decent American.]
This Forum does not
usually comment on sports news, there being plenty of people far more
erudite and qualified to do so. But some
stories are just too good to pass up, and the story of Bubba Watson, who
recently won the most prestigious sports event in the world, the Master’s Golf
Tournament, is one of them.
It is impossible to
mention golf and not mention Tiger Woods.
Mr. Woods is a superb athlete, a great player and probably one of the
most dislikable sports figures in the world today. Mr. Woods turned out to be a rather
reprehensible person in his personal life, but the commentary here is on his
professional life. As a professional
golfer Mr. Woods seems to believe that everyone is privileged to see him play,
and that the public owes him, not the other way round. For Mr. Woods golf is a chore, a job,
something he does to earn a living. He
plays as little as he can, restricting his efforts to major tournaments that he
feels are deserving of his presence.
All of that has made
Mr. Woods a not very successful golfer recently. He needs to study and learn from Mr.
Watson. First of all, Mr.
Watson is playing this weekend in a tournament he did not want to play in,
because he wanted to spend time with his family, particularly his new son.
“We’ve had him for a
month, and I’ve only got to see him eight or nine days, so it’s not enough, not
a lot,” Watson said. He sounded rueful. He said he cried when it was time to
leave his son and wife in Orlando , Fla. , to fly to New
Orleans .
If he did not have a
title to defend, Watson said he would have been inclined to take another week
off to catch his breath. “I have not had enough time with my family, by myself
or anything,” he said, “but I felt obligated to my fans, to New Orleans , the city, that I should be here.”
He added: “I felt like
being defending champ, it was an obligation that I should be here. I think I
should be honored that I won here before, and I should be here. But yeah, I
would love to be at home right now watching my little boy and spending time with
my wife.”
And Mr. Watson is not alone in this belief that
family comes first. Another great
golfer, Phil Michelson was more than ready to quit a major tournament if his
wife went into labor. Mr. Michelson has
shown that he has the character to be a winner on and off the course.
Another important thing is that Mr. Watson is playing
professional golf in part because he likes to play golf.
“I’m
just Bubba from Bagdad , Florida ,” Watson said. “Small town. Play
golf because I love the game of golf. I play golf because it’s fun. Every day
is different.”
And as a result Mr. Watson has a following not only
from the public, but from his fellow professional golfers as well.
As
Watson was wrapping up his news conference, Ben Crane stood patiently in the
back of the room waiting for his turn at the podium. Crane counts Watson among
his closest friends on the tour, which is why he did not think twice about
returning to the course after finishing his final round at the Masters to cheer
Watson along in the playoff.
Joining
Crane in the crowd were Rickie Fowler and Aaron Baddeley, with whom Watson has
grown close during their weekly Bible study sessions. “We knew that Angie was
at home,” Crane said, “she wasn’t able to come out because of the situation
with their baby, and so we just wanted to go out and support our friend who we
love.”
A couple of points to note here. One, can anyone imagine any golfer on the
tour doing what these people did if it were Tiger Woods. No, almost certainly not a single other tour
pro would have joined the gallery to support Mr. Woods had he been in the playoff.
The second point, can anyone imagine Tiger Woods
joining the gallery to support another player?
Not in a million years. And by
the time Mr. Watson was playing the round of his life Mr. Woods was certainly
long gone, and thinking only about Mr. Woods.
Tiger Woods will win more tournaments, he
is just that good. But unless he changes he will never be
what Mr. Watson, Mr. Michelson and the others like them will be, decent and
admirable human beings.
We all answer for our actons someday- be prepared Mr. Woods. I'm not talking about your personal life but your golf life - it's giong steadily downhill.
ReplyDeleteMr. Michelson has a following of folks who love to watch him play. The Media has never done him any favours in the past several years as I see it. However, they admire and back Mr. Woods (and not for his golf actions) and he is no longer the player he once was but they are doing their best to bring him along at the expense of others.